How to allow the universe
to create a life abundant in happiness
Can the Universe Manifest
that Relationship?
by Karen Kelley
Recently I was reading an
article in my email that I was constantly saying, "Boy, she's got
that one right." "This lady really understands." "Oh, that's why I
was able to manifest such and such." The article was about
manifesting and it was discussing the process of using lists. If
you're an analytical person like me, you love lists. I create lists
to do things like: running errands (I joke about being blond but I
do get distracted easily), sending birthday cards sent out, grocery
lists, birthday and holiday gift ideas (so that when I am shopping
these things are there in the back of my mind when an item appears
on a display).
Let's say you want to create
a relationship that really works for a change. I pick this subject
because it is one that I hear so very often from friends, on TV,
radio, and internet blogs, and it worked for me. I guess this is
because we all have that need to feel loved and appreciated. In the
email article, they were saying to create a list of the things in
the current situation you do not like. Okay, if you are into
manifesting at all, you are saying, "That's off base because you
should not focus on what you do not want."
Stay with me for a minute
here. We just made a list of what we don't want, now let's draw a
line straight down the page and on the other column we are now going
to look at the opposite of what we wrote in the first column. What
you place in the second column are all the things you DO want.
Here's an example. Column1:
He is insensitive. Column2: He makes me feel cared for and my needs
are important to him. Got the idea? I used this process quite by
chance in the recent past. I was in a relationship that had just
ended and I was more than devastated. I was hurt and unsure of how
to deal with it. I started a list of what I did not like about this
person. The list grew and grew.
Then I listed the things I
did like. When I was done, I looked at the list and wondered why I
had ever been in the relationship to begin with. That helped a lot.
I'm not sure where it came from but I then started a list that I
titled "My perfect Man." I basically took all the qualities I did
not like about the previous relationship and turned them around to
what I thought was more suitable for me.
When I was done with my list
making, I put them away (I certainly did not want anyone to read
them for fear that they would realize just how messed up I was over
the situation. Image was important to me.) I went on my merry way
(hardly considering I was devastated) and started to get back into
life. I took classes, dated a few men, went to shows and trips with
girlfriends, parties, etc. I was having the time of my when the most
unusual man appeared. We were an instant hit together! It was not
until perhaps three months later when we were having a conversation
and I mentioned the list I wrote. I got the list out and to my
surprise, he was EVERYTHING I had listed that I was looking for
(with the exception that he still smoked cigarettes). I was floored!
So let's look at how the
Universe got involved here. I made a list of what I wanted and I put
it away. I only put it away because I was afraid someone else would
see it; but "out of sight, out of mind." From the perspective of the
Universe, I put the request out there of what I wanted and I let go
of it and got back into life. Remember the saying, "Let go and let
God." This is exactly what you are doing. You put the request out
there and let go of it. Caution: If we stay attached to a situation
(still unhappy about this, or that, or him or her, etc.), we just
attract more of that situation into our lives. I became focused on
enjoying life again whether I had a relationship or not. The keyword
here is detachment (I can't say it enough....Let go and let God).
That is probably the toughest thing in the world -- to try to be
detached from something that is causing you discomfort. This is
where the list is critical and make sure you put more concentration
into the positive side of what you want. Give the Universe an
opportunity to assist in creating the relationship others only dream
of.
Let's create lives abundant
with love and happiness.
Karen Kelley spent 25
years manifesting the dream of the corporation she worked for. She
is now manifesting her dreams of abundant joy. Feel free to check
out her web site at
http://www.universallawstoday.com
Free Motivation
Software
Change
life-long habits in days.
Click HERE and learn more.
Angel Talisman Coin
Legendary
good luck coin
guaranteed to improve life.
Control Your Dreams
Lucid Dreaming Kit
Gives You
Results in 7-Days Guaranteed.
|
